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Re: Welcome to the Friends, Family and Carers Group Hub! Introduce yourself here ๐Ÿ™‚

Hi everyone, thanks for the welcome ๐Ÿค

 

Iโ€™m 31 and my partner and I are supporting my 23 year old brother who recently moved here from NZ. We had very different upbringings - I was raised by our grandparents, and he was raised by our mum, who didnโ€™t have the tools to support him properly. Heโ€™s had a tough time since he was 14, with trauma, a few concussions in school, and some substance abuse with weed that didnโ€™t help his mental health.. 

 

Heโ€™s experienced multiple episodes of psychosis over the past few years, and now hears voices daily. The symptoms have become more consistent and intense - things like paranoia, thought broadcasting, belief that people can read or manipulate his thoughts, and really intense auditory hallucinations. From everything weโ€™ve read together, it seems likely this could be schizophrenia or a related psychotic disorder. But we understand he needs proper assessment and diagnosis, not assumptions.

 

He is very self aware, wants help, and is trying. But he also masks extremely well and may not communicate the full severity of what heโ€™s experiencing especially the delusions and voices, which are constant and exhausting.

 

Iโ€™m helping him stabilise day to day with routine, sleep, nutrition, and support. Weโ€™re just hoping this GP appointment can lead to a clear mental health care pathway, formal assessment, diagnosis, and the right medication and support, heโ€™s has meds in the past and its helped but heโ€™s in a different head space he knows heโ€™s unwell. Heโ€™s motivated but can be worn down by the constant intense voices so Iโ€™m helping him as much as possible - we just donโ€™t want him to slip through the cracks againโ€ฆ

 

any advice on what to say to the GP? The right language to use. 


any in person support groups you recommend? Do they exist? 

he will eventually need to live in a flat share situation, he has 7-8 weeks with us as we pet sit full time and wonโ€™t have accom for him. Any recommendations how to go about this? Any flats shares that would work with someone like my brother. 

 

Thanks again, this space has already helped a lot. I love portrait photography but I work in food photography full time - creativity has been a good outlet for me for years. ๐Ÿ™‚ I will get used to these forums. This set up confuses me as itโ€™s new. 

 

@Shaz51  @tyme 

@AuntGlow  @FloatingFeather 

Re: Welcome to the Friends, Family and Carers Group Hub! Introduce yourself here ๐Ÿ™‚

Peanut is beautiful ๐Ÿ˜ @PeppyPatti 

 

Hello @BigSisterS and thank you for sharing your story 

How are you going today 

Will tag @Bunniekins , @tyme  , @Ru-bee @for you

Re: Welcome to the Friends, Family and Carers Group Hub! Introduce yourself here ๐Ÿ™‚

Lol @Bunniekins ... yeah, the forums have a few tech bugs. We've called in the bug catcher already.

Re: Welcome to the Friends, Family and Carers Group Hub! Introduce yourself here ๐Ÿ™‚

@PeppyPatti ! Peanut!!! What a HANDSOME fellow! I want to cuddle him soooo much!

 

Thanks for sharing. The photo is gorgeous~!