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[Determined]

@Darcy  🙏 

[Faith-and-Hope]

Thinking of you too @Darcy ....

[Determined]

@Darcy  continuing to think of you and Mr Darcy 

[Darcy]

Got the sad news today, Mr Darcy has pancreatic cancer. I will need to travel to city to be with him (he is being airlifted). Early days - staging yet to occur - posting will be a bit hit and miss.

Am hoping pdoc will call me in relation to managing this next phase 

[Determined]

Oh @Darcy  there really are no words.

Please know you are both in thoughts and prayers 🙏😥

[Shaz51]

Ohh @Darcy , praying for you both and sending hugs 

[Darcy]

In major city hospital now for procedure/ treatment planning. Mr Darcy beside himself about the time he has been in hospital/ unknown discharge date/ concern about need for major surgery.  Found that regional hospital had been giving him half dose of one of his psych meds in error (1 not 2 tabs).  I rang pdoc to see about prn meds and  checked with staff at desk as to  meds/ dosages he was getting to see if discussed adjustments had been made by psych team I picked up the mistake. 

Last thing he/ we need is a psychotic episode.

[Sophie1]

@Darcy  just catching up on your thread and am in disbelief - sending you the biggest hugs and love - please know we are all sending you all of gods blessings and our love 

There are no right words to say - please take care of yourself and be gentle with yourself as you continue to care for your beloved MrD so perfectly- you are stronger than you know and take a moment at a time - breathe and breathe again xxxx

[Shaz51]

Ohh wow @Darcy , now we can see why Mr Darcy was having a hard time -- because of his meds 

Sending you hugs 

Mr shaz went to the doctor about his worries about the meds like @greenpea 

Last week the doctor gave him a newer version of the meds ---- not working 

So back on the old meds again

@Sophie1 , @Determined  , @Faith-and-Hope , @Mrsjones 

[Determined]

Wow... Not good on behalf of the hospital @Darcy 

Continue to pray for you both in these difficult times. 

Thinking  of you and feeling for you in all of this as you support Mr D and navigate an ever changing environment yourself.